Still Single
the church rarely names.
It is the weight of faithfulness that has gone unmet. Of praying, preparing, and trusting — year after year — while the life you believed God had for you remains just out of reach.
It is the quiet ache of turning 30, or 40, or even 50 and wondering whether something is wrong with you. Whether God has forgotten you. Whether a kingdom marriage was ever truly His will for your life at all.
"I'm not angry with God. I'm just confused. Why am I still waiting? Why haven't my prayers been answered yet?"
If you have ever felt that — the confusion, the weariness, the honest wondering — you deserve more than a platitude. You deserve a real answer, grounded in both scripture and research.
That is what this webinar offers.
for three women.
You may find yourself in one — or in all three.
She has prayed, fasted, and stood on the Word. She has chosen God when it was not easy. But she is tired of answers that do not go deep enough — and she is ready for the truth about why she is still waiting.
She has built something extraordinary. A career, a degree, a life of purpose. But she carries a grief that is difficult to name — the loneliness of every milestone celebrated alone. She calls it soul fatigue, and she is right.
She is not faithless. She is not bitter. But in her most honest moments she has begun to wonder whether marriage is even God's will for her specific life — and she needs a safe, thoughtful space to hold that question without shame.
- 01The real reasons faithful Christian women remain single — rooted in peer-reviewed research and scripture together
- 02Why "waiting on God" has been misapplied — and what active, faith-grounded discernment actually looks like
- 03How to honestly seek whether marriage is God's will for your specific life — without fear, shame, or pressure
- 04The hidden emotional and relational patterns that keep godly women in cycles of "almost" and "not yet"
- 05How your earliest experiences with love may be quietly shaping who you attract today
- 06What it means to prepare for marriage from the inside out — spiritually, emotionally, and relationally
The teaching is free and fully complete. If you want to go deeper — to process, reflect, and apply what you hear to your own life — VIP was designed for you.
- —48-hour replay access — revisit the teaching at your own pace
- —"What's Really Keeping Me Single" — an exclusive self-assessment workbook completed during the webinar to help you identify your specific patterns
- —Live Power Hour with Dr. Em — immediately following the webinar, Dr. Em will spend a full hour responding to as many women as possible with their specific next step — drawing from both her prophetic gift and her grounded expertise as a relationship educator and scholar. This is not a generic Q&A. She will speak to your situation from both a spiritual and a practical lens.
Dr. Em is a researcher, relationship educator, and mentor whose work sits at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and relational formation. For over a decade she has studied what actually happens — spiritually, emotionally, and relationally — when believers navigate singleness, sexuality, and the pursuit of godly marriage. She brings together the rigor of peer-reviewed scholarship and the depth of lived faith, serving as a midwife to kingdom marriages — walking alongside women as they do the honest, courageous work of becoming ready.
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was made for you.