the church rarely names.
It is the weight of faithfulness that has gone unmet. Of praying, preparing, and trusting — year after year — while the life you believed God had for you remains just out of reach.
It is the quiet ache of turning 30, or 40, or even 50 and wondering whether something is wrong with you. Whether God has forgotten you. Whether a kingdom marriage was ever truly His will for your life at all.
"I'm not angry with God. I'm just confused. Why am I still waiting? Why haven't my prayers been answered yet?"
If you have ever felt that — the confusion, the weariness, the honest wondering — you deserve more than a platitude. You deserve a real answer, grounded in both scripture and research.
That is what this webinar offers.
for three women.
You may find yourself in one — or in all three.
She has prayed, fasted, and stood on the Word. She has chosen God when it was not easy. But she is tired of answers that do not go deep enough — and she is ready for the truth about why she is still waiting.
She has built something extraordinary. A career, a degree, a life of purpose. But she carries a grief that is difficult to name — the loneliness of every milestone celebrated alone. She calls it soul fatigue, and she is right.
She is not faithless. She is not bitter. But in her most honest moments she has begun to wonder whether marriage is even God's will for her specific life — and she needs a safe, thoughtful space to hold that question without shame.
- 01Discover the real reason faithful Christian women remain single — and why it's not what the church or the culture has been telling you
- 02Uncover how to bring God into the process as your true matchmaker — not just your sign-off when your own plan hasn't worked
- 03Explore what active, faith-filled discernment actually looks like versus passive waiting
- 04Identify whether you are truly positioned for kingdom marriage — or unknowingly blocking it
Dr. Em is a researcher, relationship educator, and mentor whose work sits at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and relational formation. For over a decade she has studied what actually happens — spiritually, emotionally, and relationally — when believers navigate singleness, sexuality, and the pursuit of godly marriage. She brings together the rigor of peer-reviewed scholarship and the depth of lived faith, serving as a midwife to kingdom marriages — walking alongside women as they do the honest, courageous work of becoming ready.
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was made for you.