The Discernment Roadmap Workbook

Identifying A Man After God's Own Heart

Now, this is a document I hold dear to my heart. After over 20 years of studying relationships God's way, thousands of dollars invested in coaching, and Holy Spirit-led guidance, I created a clear, Scripture-backed framework to help you discern whether a man is truly sent by God — or just sent to distract you. I've placed it all in one workbook at a fraction of the cost to save you time, unnecessary pain, and money. This roadmap was made just for YOU.

These strategies had a brother packing his bags and moving from Arkansas to California to "go get his wife." No, seriously — God helped me navigate dating and avoid counterfeits using these very principles, which resulted in alignment with my now-forever love.

Inside The Discernment Roadmap you'll discover:

• Why money, titles, church visibility, and chemistry are NOT discernment — and what actually is

• A phase-by-phase discernment guide covering Observation, Talking/Dating, Exclusive, Engagement, and Marriage

• Green, yellow, and red flags for every phase so you never have to second-guess what you're seeing

• The universal danger zones that trip women up at every stage

• Phase-specific prayers to keep your heart surrendered to God — not your feelings

• A powerful recalibration prayer to strip away every worldly filter you've learned to value

"Courtship is not about discovering chemistry — it is about discerning obedience, alignment, and safety over time."

For less than brunch with your friend, you BOTH can stop guessing and start discerning.

Enjoy,

Dr. Em