Is he sent by God — or sent to distract you?
After 20 years of research, thousands invested in coaching, and Holy Spirit-led revelation, Dr. Em built the discernment framework she wished she'd had. Now it's yours.
The Discernment Roadmap Workbook
Identifying A Man After God's Own Heart
Now, this is a document Dr. Em holds dear to her heart. After over 20 years of studying relationships God's way, thousands of dollars invested in coaching, and Holy Spirit-led guidance, she created a clear, Scripture-backed framework to help you discern whether a man is truly sent by God — or just sent to distract you. She placed it all in one workbook at a fraction of the cost, saving you time, unnecessary pain, and money. This roadmap was made just for YOU.
These strategies had a brother packing his bags and moving from Arkansas to California to "go get his wife." No, seriously — God helped Dr. Em navigate dating and avoid counterfeits by using these very principles, resulting in alignment with her now-forever love. She now uses these same strategies, often refined by the Holy Spirit, to reflect the climate of the current time.
Dr. Emily McKnight, lovingly known as Dr. Em, is a Ph.D. researcher, Certified Family Life Educator, and published relationship scientist who has studied 43+ couples who dated God's way.
Inside The Discernment Roadmap, you'll discover:
Why money, titles, church visibility, and chemistry are NOT discernment — and what actually is.
A phase-by-phase discernment guide covering Observation, Talking/Dating, Exclusive, Engagement, and Marriage.
Green, yellow, and red flags for every phase so you never have to second-guess what you're seeing.
The universal danger zones that trip women up at every stage.
Phase-specific prayers to keep your heart surrendered to God — not your feelings.
A powerful recalibration prayer to strip away every worldly filter you've learned to value.
"Courtship is not about discovering chemistry — it is about discerning obedience, alignment, and safety over time."
For less than the cost of brunch with your friend, you BOTH can stop guessing and start discerning.