Is he sent by God — or sent to distract you?
After 20 years of research, thousands invested in coaching, and Holy Spirit-led revelation, Dr. Em built the discernment framework she wished she'd had. Now it's yours.
The Discernment Roadmap Workbook
Identifying A Man After God's Own Heart
Now, this is a document Dr. Em holds dear to her heart. After over 20 years of studying relationships God's way, thousands of dollars invested in coaching, and Holy Spirit-led guidance, she created a clear, Scripture-backed framework to help you discern whether a man is truly sent by God — or just sent to distract you. I've placed it all in one workbook at a fraction of the cost to save you time, unnecessary pain, and money. This roadmap was made just for YOU.
These strategies had a brother packing his bags and moving from Arkansas to California to "go get his wife." No, seriously — God helped me navigate dating and avoid counterfeits using these very principles, which resulted in alignment with my now-forever love.
Dr. Emily McKnight, lovingly known as Dr. Em, is a Ph.D. researcher, Certified Family Life Educator, and published relationship scientist who has studied 43+ couples who dated God's way.
Inside The Discernment Roadmap, you'll discover:
Why money, titles, church visibility, and chemistry are NOT discernment — and what actually is
A phase-by-phase discernment guide covering Observation, Talking/Dating, Exclusive, Engagement, and Marriage
Green, yellow, and red flags for every phase so you never have to second-guess what you're seeing
The universal danger zones that trip women up at every stage
Phase-specific prayers to keep your heart surrendered to God — not your feelings
A powerful recalibration prayer to strip away every worldly filter you've learned to value
"Courtship is not about discovering chemistry — it is about discerning obedience, alignment, and safety over time."
For less than the cost of brunch with your friend, you BOTH can stop guessing and start discerning.