The faith-based framework that teaches you to move from passive hope to Spirit-led readiness — so when he arrives, you know exactly what to do.
Live on Zoom · Community · Coaching · Activation Challenges
Yes, I'm Ready — Enroll NowRegistration opens April 16 · Closes April 19 · Cohort begins April 20, 2026
This Is For You If...
She looks faithful on the outside.
But something's still missing.
You're not even sure if marriage is God's will for your life.
You're faithful, you're abstinent, you're walking with God. But you haven't dated in years — and if the right man showed up tomorrow, you wouldn't know what to do. You're wondering if God even has this for you, or if you've missed your window.
You attract men — just never the right ones.
You do great while single. Abstinence, boundaries, the whole thing. But once you're partnered, something shifts. Your picker is off, discouragement is building. God seems to keep removing every man from your life — and you're starting to wonder if marriage is really for you at all.
You're not too far gone. You haven't missed it. You just haven't been taught how to attract with intention and discern with the Spirit — until now.
The Curriculum
Live Teaching, Labs & Activation
Every Monday live on Zoom — teaching, practice labs, and weekly activation challenges sent straight to your inbox.
Monday Live Sessions — Teaching + LabKickoff + Foundation
Cohort meet and greet, ground rules, and setting expectations. We cover what to do if you're already dating someone, if you meet someone during the intensive, and how to navigate emotional challenges.
Look to God
Shift your eyes off the lack and onto the Source. Learn what it means to make God your first pursuit in this season.
Listen to God
Develop the internal posture of a woman who hears from Heaven. Quiet the noise that has been louder than His voice.
Listen for God
Move from passive to active listening. Learn to discern the Spirit's voice in real time — in your emotions, your relationships, your body.
Discern a Man of God
The practical framework. What are you actually looking for? How do you evaluate character, calling, and compatibility without losing yourself?
Graduation + Next Steps
Discern a man of God — for you. Personalize your standard, celebrate your transformation, and step forward with a clear plan.
Weekly Practice Labs
Live labs every session to practice, pair-share, and lock in what you just learned with your cohort sisters.
Activation Challenges
Weekly challenges delivered to your inbox — push the teaching into your real life, not just the classroom.
Office Hours with Dr. Em
Live hot seat coaching and clarity sessions. Bring your real questions and anything you're navigating in real time.
By the End of Beyond Attraction
You'll Walk Away Knowing, Feeling & Able To
Attract with Intention
Using a Spirit-led framework, you'll have the confidence, ability, and boldness to engage anyone — becoming a delight who naturally attracts God's people, including men of God.
Discern with Clarity
Attract and recognize men of God with purpose — not just feeling your way through it. You'll know what you're looking for and how to evaluate it.
Feel Confident in Your Desire for Marriage
No more wavering or apologizing for wanting what God designed. You'll hold this desire with peace and conviction.
Communicate, Listen & Guard Your Purity
Engage a man while staying rooted — spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
Walk in Intentional Confidence
Show up differently — in how you dress, how you speak, how you enter a room. Hidden no more.
Move in Step with the Holy Spirit
Not striving, not forcing — trusting the timing and moving with clarity until God aligns your path with his.
This isn't just head knowledge. It's a complete shift in how you see yourself, how you carry yourself, and who you let in.
Your Guide
Meet Dr. Em
Christian Dating & Relationship Coach · Researcher · Author
I exist at the intersection of data and divinity — where evidence-based research meets biblical revelation to reshape how believers date, marry, and love.
Dr. Em doesn't just coach — she carries a teaching anointing. With a rare ability to take complex biblical and research-based truth and make it land in a way that changes how you think, how you move, and who you become. Women don't just leave her sessions informed — they leave transformed.
For over 20 years I've studied relationships God's way — not just as a researcher, but as a woman who has lived this journey. My work has been published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, Marriage and Family Review, and other peer-reviewed journals, and everything I've learned in the academy, I bring into the room with you.
I'm not only going to teach you how to attract a man — I'm going to teach you how to become the woman who discerns one of God's sons (im)perfectly designed for you.
Straight from the Beta Cohort
Real Women. Real Results.
Before that program I was lost. I thought I knew how to date since I'd been dating all my life — but going through these teachings, I realized I had no clue what I was doing. God showed up. He revealed I wasn't healed from my past relationship, that I didn't know what love was, and that I had to first be comfortable being by myself. If you desire marriage and want to learn God's way, sign up Sis.
Before this program I was battling going backwards — confidence hit or miss. After: actively choosing daily to move forward, dressing and feeling my best for ME, showing up as my full self and not shrinking.
I have learned how to attract and discern a kingdom spouse. If marriage is God's perfect will for me, I know how to choose wisely to cultivate a beautiful relationship that can be transitioned to holy matrimony.
This investment in myself was worth it. I would have missed out on the opportunity to build my foundation of readiness and glean new knowledge to help me navigate the dating waters.
More clarity on how to bring up faith casually while dating. I now recognize that too much time spent too soon leads to feelings that make red flags more tolerable. That shift alone changed everything.
Now I walk in a completely different level of confidence and love for myself. I know without a doubt that God desires marriage for me — a personal why I can hold onto. I realized I was isolating myself. I wasn't being intentional about how I showed up. Now I'm comfortable engaging, and I no longer carry the fear that my man of God won't find me. Most importantly, I've learned to truly value myself — my beauty, my personality, and what I deserve.
I'm no longer hidden. I've learned to present myself as a delight who is open to what God has for me, yet not settling for nothing. I'm moving with intentionality, allowing God to orchestrate my path — with expectation it can happen any day now.
Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
The community lives inside Mighty Networks — resources, replays, and your cohort sisters all in one place. All live teaching sessions and labs are hosted via Zoom every Monday.
Lifetime access. Once you're enrolled, you're in. All session replays and course materials are available inside the community for as long as it exists.
Every session is recorded and replays are available in the community. We encourage you to show up live whenever possible — that's where the transformation happens. But life is life, and we've got you covered.
Office Hours are live hot seat coaching and clarity sessions with Dr. Em. Bring your activation challenge questions, anything you're processing in real time, or a situation you need direct guidance on. This is where the teaching gets personal.
Absolutely — this intensive was built with you in mind. Whether you're nervous, unsure, or still seeking clarity on whether marriage is God's will for your life, Beyond Attraction meets you exactly where you are.
Yes! You can pay in 2 installments — 49 due today and 49 due 14 days later. Full details are at checkout.
Registration opens Thursday, April 16 and closes Sunday, April 19. Beyond Attraction kicks off Monday, April 20. Once doors close, they close — so don't wait.
Because of the brevity of this intensive, if you feel Beyond Attraction is not for you, you may request a full refund within 7 days of the start date. After that date, all sales are final. Questions? Email emily@lovedoctorem.com
Ready to Begin?
Enroll in Beyond Attraction
Discerning a Man of God — Activation Intensive
Pay in full · or 2 payments of 49 available at checkout
- 5 Weekly Live Zoom Teaching Sessions with Dr. Em
- 5 Weekly Live Practice Labs (same night)
- Weekly Activation Challenges via email
- Office Hours — Live Hot Seat Coaching & Clarity Sessions
- Private Cohort Community on Mighty Networks
- Lifetime Replay Access to All Sessions
Secure checkout · 2-pay option available · Questions? emily@lovedoctorem.com
Don't let fear talk you out of what God is already calling you into.
You've been faithful in the waiting. You've prayed, you've believed, you've held on. This intensive was built for this exact moment in your story — when you're ready to stop wondering and start moving with clarity, confidence, and the Spirit.
I'll see you inside.
— Dr. Em
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